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HanziPinyinEnglishTags
老人家lǎorenjiapolite term for old woman or manHSK 7, unknown, 18 strokes, rank #10121, Very Hard
lǎorenjia(lao3ren5jia5)lao ren jia T3
  1. 1polite term for old woman or man
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March 24, 2026

老人家lǎorenjia(lao3ren5jia5)

老人家 (lǎo rén jiā) is a polite term used to refer to an elderly person, typically conveying respect and affection. It can be used to address or speak about an old man or woman, often in familial or community contexts, emphasizing the person's wisdom and experience.

Strokes18Frequency#10121DifficultyVery Hard
Cultural note

In Chinese culture, respect for the elderly is deeply ingrained, and terms like '老人家' reflect this value. It is common to consult elderly individuals for advice, and showing respect through language is considered a virtue.

Memory tip

Think of '老人家' as 'old person home.' The character '老' (lǎo) means 'old,' '人' (rén) means 'person,' and '家' (jiā) can imply 'home' or 'family.' Visualize an elderly person sitting comfortably at home, sharing stories of the past, which helps you remember its meaning and pronunciation.

Meanings of 老人家

lǎorenjia(lao3ren5jia5)
1polite term for old woman or man
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老人家Simplified
18Strokes
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名词míngcínoun (n.)Part of Speech
#—Frequency Rank
HSK 3.0L7AdvancedCEFRC2

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老人 (lǎorén) is a more general term for 'elderly person' without the affectionate nuance of 家; 耆老 (qílǎo) emphasizes seniority and wisdom more formally.

Usage Notes

Be sure to use this term in respectful contexts; it is more appropriate in formal or semi-formal settings. Avoid using it in a mocking tone or in casual conversations, as this may come off as disrespectful. Common collocations include '老人家好' (lǎo rén jiā hǎo), meaning 'hello, elderly person.'

HSK Study Tips

Although not an HSK vocabulary word, it relates to HSK Level 3 terms such as '老' (old) and '人' (person). Focus on recognizing the components of the word and understanding its respectful connotation, which can help in building vocabulary around family and social roles.

Common Mistakes

Learners often confuse '老人家' with informal terms like '老头' or '老太太,' which can be disrespectful. For instance, saying '你老头' (nǐ lǎo tóu, you old man) is inappropriate, while '老人家' maintains respect.

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Component characters

老lǎoold (of people)
HSK 36 strokes老
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人rénman
HSK 12 strokes人
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家jiāhome
HSK 110 strokes宀
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How to say polite term for old woman or man in Chinese

“polite term for old woman or man” in Chinese is老人家lǎorenjia

老人家 (lǎo rén jiā) is a polite term used to refer to an elderly person, typically conveying respect and affection. It can be used to address or speak about an old man or woman, often in familial or community contexts, emphasizing the person's wisdom and experience.

When to use 老人家

Be sure to use this term in respectful contexts; it is more appropriate in formal or semi-formal settings. Avoid using it in a mocking tone or in casual conversations, as this may come off as disrespectful. Common collocations include '老人家好' (lǎo rén jiā hǎo), meaning 'hello, elderly person.'

老人家 or something close to it

老人 (lǎorén) is a more general term for 'elderly person' without the affectionate nuance of 家; 耆老 (qílǎo) emphasizes seniority and wisdom more formally.

What learners get wrong

Learners often confuse '老人家' with informal terms like '老头' or '老太太,' which can be disrespectful. For instance, saying '你老头' (nǐ lǎo tóu, you old man) is inappropriate, while '老人家' maintains respect.

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