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HanziPinyinEnglishTags
相依为命xiāngyīwéimìngmutually dependent for life (idiom); to rely upon one another for survivalHSK 7, unknown, 29 strokes, rank #20858, Very Hard
相依为命xiāngyīwéimìnginterdependentHSK 7, unknown, 29 strokes, rank #20858, Very Hard
xiāngyīwéimìng(xiang1yi1wei2ming4)xiang yi wei ming T1
  1. 1mutually dependent for life (idiom); to rely upon one another for survival
  2. 2interdependent
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March 24, 2026

相依为命(相依為命)xiāngyīwéimìng(xiang1yi1wei2ming4)

The idiom 相依为命 (xiāng yī wéi mìng) describes a deep, mutual dependence between individuals, often highlighting the emotional bond and reliance they have on each other for survival or wellbeing. It is commonly used to express the sentiment that two people share their lives and support each other through difficult times.

Strokes29Frequency#20858DifficultyVery Hard
Cultural note

In Chinese culture, the concept of mutual dependence is often emphasized in familial and romantic relationships, reflecting values of loyalty and support. The idiom captures the essence of relationships where individuals are seen as inseparable through life's challenges.

Memory tip

Imagine two trees growing so closely together that their roots intertwine and they depend on each other for water and nutrients. This visual of 'tree roots' (相依) can help you remember the idea of mutual reliance while the phrase 'for life' (为命) emphasizes the importance of this connection.

Meanings of 相依为命

xiāngyīwéimìng(xiang1yi1wei2ming4)
1mutually dependent for life (idiom); to rely upon one another for survival
2interdependent
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相依为命Simplified
相依為命Traditional
29Strokes
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#—Frequency Rank
HSK 3.0L7AdvancedCEFRC2

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Usage Notes

Learners often misuse this idiom by applying it to casual friendships instead of serious relationships. It carries a formal tone and is best used in contexts discussing close family ties or romantic partnerships. Be careful with the tones; the correct pronunciation is crucial for conveying the intended meaning.

HSK Study Tips

As this idiom isn't listed in the HSK vocabulary, learners should focus on breaking it down into its components. Understanding the individual characters—相 (mutual), 依 (depend), 为 (for), 命 (life)—can help grasp the overall meaning. This idiom can be linked to other HSK vocabulary related to relationships and support.

Common Mistakes

Learners might confuse this idiom with similar phrases like '相互依赖' (xiāng hù yī lài), which is less emotionally intense. An incorrect example would be saying '我们相依为命' (wǒmen xiāng yī wéi mìng) to describe casual acquaintances, which is inappropriate; it should be reserved for those with a profound connection.

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Idiom spotlight: 相依为命

Chengyu origin story
Literal meaning:mutually depend for life

Component characters

相Xiāngeach other
9 strokes目
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依yīto depend on
HSK 78 strokes亻
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为wèibecause of
HSK 34 strokes丶
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命mìnglife
HSK 58 strokes口
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How to say mutually dependent for life (idiom); to rely upon one another for survival in Chinese

“mutually dependent for life (idiom); to rely upon one another for survival” in Chinese is相依为命xiāngyīwéimìng

The idiom 相依为命 (xiāng yī wéi mìng) describes a deep, mutual dependence between individuals, often highlighting the emotional bond and reliance they have on each other for survival or wellbeing. It is commonly used to express the sentiment that two people share their lives and support each other through difficult times.

When to use 相依为命

Learners often misuse this idiom by applying it to casual friendships instead of serious relationships. It carries a formal tone and is best used in contexts discussing close family ties or romantic partnerships. Be careful with the tones; the correct pronunciation is crucial for conveying the intended meaning.

What learners get wrong

Learners might confuse this idiom with similar phrases like '相互依赖' (xiāng hù yī lài), which is less emotionally intense. An incorrect example would be saying '我们相依为命' (wǒmen xiāng yī wéi mìng) to describe casual acquaintances, which is inappropriate; it should be reserved for those with a profound connection.

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Cultural Notes for 相依为命

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In Western cultures, while mutual dependence is valued in close relationships, the emphasis is often more on independence and self-reliance compared to the interdependence highlighted in this Chinese idiom.

Frequently asked questions about 相依为命

It's best reserved for deeper relationships, such as family or romantic partners, rather than casual friendships.

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